Best Sexologist Oakland Near Me

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I work with women & couples for whom sexual thriving is the next frontier.


Do you feel like you’re crushing it in most areas of your life, but physical intimacy is lacking?

You might have a great connection with your partner but feel completely lost sexually.

Or, you are too anxious or shy to ever bring up the topic of sex in your relationship.

Perhaps, you’ve felt shut down or numb for years wondering if there’s something wrong with you.

Or have been terrified to lose your person because of sexual incompatibility?

More importantly, you intuitively know there is more to sex, but are not sure how to get there.

What I offer is more than just a temporary fix. It’s a journey that will connect you with the magic, mystery, and power of your sexual self. You might not know it, but SHE is there, waiting to be awakened.

These days my coaching is primarily based on the VITA method, which combines modern neurobiology discoveries, holistic healing, and somatic coaching with the ancient wisdom of Tantra, Taoism, and Sacred Sexuality.

Finding and clearing internal blockages and deeper conditioning that are at the root of your struggles.

A comprehensive understanding of human sexuality and sex education that you never got.

Embodiment tools and practices that will help you get out of your head and connect to your body and pleasure on a new level.

Creating a safe space for you to learn who you really are as a sexual being.

I will invite you to connect and listen to your body at each step of your process. This is different from talk therapy. Utilizing a powerful combination of somatic tools like breathwork, guided meditations, energy work, sounding, movement, and gentle trauma release, my method offers a unique approach to healing and awakening sexuality.

As a somatic sexologist, I’ve successfully worked with people struggling with:

Not knowing what they want and how to ask for it

Where to start with the exploration of ethical non-monogamy or kink

“Anya’s energy is a beautiful and steady guide. Her ability to both contain sessions and expand the field of one’s healing with both her presence and her obvious extensive training, left me in a place of ease, trust, safety, and surrender from our first session.

If you are wanting to be held in complete love and safety, while also encouraged to truly explore your edges of what holds you back, consider her for your healing journey.” – Artemis Mandala, Sex Therapist, LMHCA

“My sessions with Anya are one of the best gifts I have ever given myself. In just a few months, Anya has helped me overcome issues with intimacy that I struggled with my ENTIRE life. She is calming, caring, supportive, and empathetic while keeping you accountable. I am so grateful for the improvements I’m seeing in my life and relationships.” – Tzipora H.

“I would not hesitate for a second to do more work with Anya. I worked with her at a time when I was experiencing a lot of disconnect from my partner and myself on multiple levels – emotional and physical. From the first sessions, I noticed how attentively she listened to me and how thoughtfully she guided me. Her easeful and non-judgemental presence made it easy for me to be vulnerable, and she helped me understand my own power in driving my healing. I can’t recommend her enough.” -Silvia S.

Trained in the VITA Sex, Love, and Relationships Coaching, the Somatica Method of Sex and Intimacy Coaching, Sexological Bodywork, and Tantra, I create a safe space for you by being open-minded, knowledgeable, perceptive, and caring, but I will hold you accountable for the results you are trying to get.

You want deep, meaningful growth in your relationships and sexuality, and you’re ready to work for it. You want a judgment-free experience where you can learn to be yourself and own your struggles, while willing to try new solutions and step out of your comfort zone.